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Did you know, that a survey conducted in England during 2001, found that 6% of 11 year olds and 39% of 15 year olds have experimented with cannabis. This sounds like a large number but it is important to remember that much of this use is short term or occasional use and in most cases will not lead to serious harm.

The odd experiment may lead to more regular use with some young people, which can have a more serious impact on their health, education and relationships.

How do young people find out about drugs?
Young people find out about drugs on ‘the streets’ and through television, and all young people have drug education at school.

At school
Children aged 5 to 7 years old learn the role of drugs as medicines. Children aged 7 to 11 years old learn that alcohol, tobacco and other drugs can have harmful affects. Young people aged 11 to 14 years old learn that the misuse of solvents, alcohol, tobacco and other drugs affect health. Young people aged 14 to 16 years old learn the effects of solvents, alcohol, tobacco and other drugs on bodily functions.

Finally…If you think that your child or another young person you are close to may be taking drugs

DON’T PANIC!

Calmly try and find out what has happened.

Avoid ‘knee-jerk’ responses.

You need to take time to consider how you really feel and what action you want to take.

If the young person is reluctant to talk to you, encourage them to talk to another adult. Ideally one who they already relate to, and who has a positive influence over them. This may be: one of their parents, a carer, an aunt or uncle, a family friend, a Connexions Personal Adviser, a youth worker, teacher, doctor, a drug worker, a Helpline worker. If the young person shares their concerns with you, listen to what they are saying. Take them seriously and try to understand what they may be feeling.

Above all keep the communication with the young person going.

If you feel that you need help, use the contacts given on the next pages. The agencies listed will be able to offer you confidential support and advice.